Vanessa Feltz

The presenter, 55, has given advice to Vanessa Feltz following her split from 'cheating' ex-fiancé Ben Ofoedu , who she had been in a relationship with for ...

And I’m so determined to enjoy everything I’m given to have. 'So, I was absolutely determined to wring every ounce of happiness and fun and adventure and excitement from every day. I don’t want to be derailed from it.' I am not going to let this defeat me.' She added: 'It’s hard then, because you're on track to be appreciating every minute and you’re feeling so sad. Vanessa continued: 'The thing is, that my mum died at 57 years old and I have mourned her every day. I feel incredibly grateful, I’m so pleased to be alive. I don't even really want to discuss that person at all.' I am absolutely determined to put my best foot forward, to keep on trucking, all that sort of stuff. I was so pleased. I don't even really have the urge to. Very hurt, very sad, terribly disappointed, worried about the future, all the normal stuff – of course I am.'

The 60-year-old broadcaster joined Phillip Schofield and Holly Willoughby on the programme to talk about parting from Ben after sixteen years together. See her ...

She did, however, say she was trying to "look on the bright side". "I can't sleep at all so reading thousands and thousands of messages from lovely people on Instagram is something to do in the middle of the night," she explained. "I really do want to focus on the future," she shared. It's not like I'm a stranger to this stuff, I've already had a horrible divorce. See her heartbreaking reaction in the video below. [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.hellomagazine.com/tags/vanessa-feltz/) has revealed that she feels "terribly humiliated" while opening up about her [split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu](https://www.hellomagazine.com/brides/20230206163613/this-morning-vanessa-feltz-real-reason-split-fiance-ben-ofoedu/) on ITV's [This Morning](https://www.hellomagazine.com/tags/this-morning/) on Wednesday.

The This Morning star spoke to ITV hosts Holly and Phil about her break up from Ben Ofoedu, saying it was both 'sudden and gradual'.

I don't want to dwell on anything or the details and I really do want to focus on the future and I want to focus on telling myself there is a future. She added: "When you go into a room or a restaurant or work and you know every single person knows your private business, that's not a nice feeling obviously but on the other hand, people come and give you a big cuddle and you don't need to keep explaining it as everybody already knows it. I feel as if I am literally in the eye of the storm at the minute and I haven't got to the bit where you look back at it, I'm right in it and anything anyone can tell me about getting through it, I would be very grateful, I really would." I'd love it if people phoned in and told me how they got over it themselves! To believe in your own relationship isn't stupid." Vanessa told Holly and Phil she's very grateful for the messages of support she has been receiving on social media.

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Vanessa Feltz took to This Morning to ask fans for their advice on how to deal with an emotional breakup after she and Ben Ofoedu parted ways.

She told them she "had my heart and soul" in their coupling before the breakup. I hope your weekend was better than mine." On Monday, she welcomed viewers by saying: "I hope you're happy and jolly.

VANESSA Feltz is in talks to be take part in a popular dating show after the sad split from her fiancé Ben Ofoedu.It comes after The Sun exclusively.

[The star ](https://www.thesun.ie/who/vanessa-feltz/)put her best foot forward in a multicoloured dress as she spent quality time with her daughter and grand-children on a day out on Sunday. [Vanessa has reassured fans she’s doing ok](https://www.thesun.ie/tv/10176864/vanessa-feltz-reassures-fans-ok-kindness-split-ben-ofoedu/) and thanked them for their kindness. I'm doing ok." I'm very shocked, but I am going to soldier forth. [rushed to support Vanessa ](https://www.thesun.ie/tvandshowbiz/10182006/vanessa-feltz-holly-willoughby-ben-ofoedu-cheated/)following the news. "I have said, I'm very sad.

The broadcaster, 60, revealed in recent days that she and her fiancé, 50, had parted ways amid claims he ' cheated with several other women '.

She said: 'Both, I think, terrible shock and a kind of gradual thing' She said later on in the show: 'I want to fall in love again. To really gather all the love and spend time having a good time. I want there to be. So I'm trying to do a professional job and bear up.' I feel sad, I feel hurt, terribly humiliated, but lots have said you shouldn't.

Vanessa Feltz says she feels 'foolish' for having faith in her relationship. It comes after the radio presenter says she does not know why her partner Ben ...

You know that everyone knows your private business, but on the other hand, you don't have to keep explaining it and everyone gives you a cuddle." To really gather all the love and spend time having a good time." She said: "Both, I think, terrible shock and a kind of gradual thing, It's often the case, a mixture of the two. Vanessa added: "For God's sake, I'm not alone, I've had it before, I've had a horrible divorce. She said she found a string of messages and emails from Ben to other women. The 60 year old appeared on [This Morning](https://www.nottinghampost.com/news/celebs-tv/) where she said she feels 'terribly humiliated'.

'Humiliated' Vanessa Feltz says she 'had to end' Ben Ofoedu relationship after 'terrible shock'. Broadcaster directly addressed split on 'This Morning'. Jacob ...

But to believe in your own relationship isn’t stupid.” Now it’s over, I don’t know.” I’ve had so many messages, it feels like millions, from people going through the same thing. People have been amazing.” And so I just wanted to say obviously I feel incredibly sad and I’m pretty disappointed and shocked and all those horrible things, but also full of resolve.” The pair were together for 16 years.

Vanessa Feltz candidly discussed how she is feeling after her split from her long-term partner Ben Ofoedu with pal Ulrika Jonsson on her TalkTV show.

"Not just for a broken heart, no no no," Vanessa said as the model continued: "Absolutely not but if you think it's a permanent thing and you think you can care for it then definitely. "But, actually what you should remember is that you are in your best... "And it's not because I don't want to put weight on it's just because I'm not hungry and that's not me at all." Sharing her feelings, Vanessa revealed: "I know that you said: 'I know you heart's broken' – probably technically it's not really, but I know I'm not myself because I'm not even going near the chocolate biscuits and normally I would want to but I'm not. [Ulrika Jonsson](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/ulrika-jonsson) over her breakup – who has advised her to "embrace the pain". [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/vanessa-feltz) has admitted she is "not herself" as she discussed how she is feeling after [her split from Ben Ofoedu.](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/disappointed-vanessa-feltz-splits-fianc-29132998)

Vanessa, 60, reportedly parted ways with Ben, 50, after suspicions he had been cheating on her and has detailed her heartbreak since announcing the news of ...

It remains to be seen whether Vanessa will take them up on their offer but they are going to pull out all the stops, so watch this space." To believe in your own relationship isn't stupid." Talks with potential cast mates are going to begin next month and producers are willing to throw big money Vanessa's way in a bid to get her to sign on the dotted line. Following the heart-wrenching split, Vanessa, it's being reported, is being eyed up by E4 bosses for the new season of Celebs Go Dating. It's horrible. Vanessa, 60, reportedly parted ways with Ben, 50, after suspicions he had been cheating on her.

VANESSA Feltz has revealed she's "not herself" after her heartbreaking split from Ben Ofoedu.The broadcaster announced she and her parter of 16 years.

Vanessa continued: "I don’t want to dwell on the details, I really do want to focus on the future." "I think the best thing to do is to gather all the things you love, the people you love, and keep them close." "I’d be really grateful to recieve it, because I feel like I’m in the eye of the storm, I really do." [ "sad, hurt and terribly humiliated](https://www.thesun.ie/tv/10182719/vanessa-feltz-ben-heartbreak-split/)" in her usual segment on the show on Wednesday. Vanessa told the pair that Ben's infidelity was "a terrible shock" and "also a kind of gradual thing" as she pieced things together. The star went on to detail how she felt "incredibly sad" over the split – which came after suggestions of infidelity.

The former Gladiators star has offered her advice to Vanessa and called her TalkTV show to tell her to "embrace the pain".

[being eyed up by Celebs Go Dating bosses ](https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/entertainment/celebrity/celebs-go-dating-bosses-want-29171471)following her split. "She must feel that adultery and betrayal continue to cast a shadow over her pursuit of happiness. Detailing her break up advice, Ulrika advised Vanessa, and anyone else suffering from heartbreak, to turn to their friends. you're like the fittest you've ever been, the best looking and you're in the greatest shape!" And it's not because I don't want to put weight on it's just because I'm not hungry and that's not me at all." Appearing via a video link on Vanessa's show on Wednesday night, the 55-year-old offered her advice to her friend through the difficult time.

During a chat with Ulrika Jonsson on her TalkTV show, the This Morning star said she's trying to be "professional" but she's still finding the balance between ...

However, she confirmed they had separated on Instagram, telling her followers that "once the trust in a relationship is gone then you can't really get it back." She added of their age difference: "I've never really known why I'm of interest, he was younger, I was older. Now it's over, I don't know." After all, I'm at work, this is my job," the Strictly Come Dancing star told Ulrika. See her open up about their split in the video below... "I'm doing my best to put on a brave face.

KERRY Katona has revealed her support for Vanessa Feltz following her shock split from Ben Ofoedu.The popular broadcaster, 60, ended the 16-year relat.

[Vanessa](https://www.thesun.ie/who/vanessa-feltz/) has since been supported by a string of famous pals and now Kerry, 42, has made it clear who she's siding with. You've got this darling, we're all behind you." And Vanessa said: "I am telling myself there is a future, I really want there to be."

The broadcaster, who split with her fiance Ben Ofoedu recently, is already reportedly being scouted for the next series of Celebs Go Dating by E4 bosses.

Hailing from Irish retailer Dunnes Stores, you can swoon further with a click here. A friend of the couple told the publication Vanessa is 'heartbroken, ashamed, devastated' but they insist she is determined to take back control of her life and focus on her new TalkTV show. Hoping to sign: According to The Sun, a TV insider shared: 'Vanessa is top of the wish list when it comes to casting' It's over: Vanessa revealed last week that she has split from fiancé Ben Ofoedu after 16 years together (pictured together in 2022) In demand: TV bosses are reportedly desperate to bag Vanessa Feltz for the new series of Celebs Go Dating after her recent split from fiance Ben Ofoedu [The Sun](http://thesun.co.uk/), a TV insider shared: 'Vanessa is top of the wish list when it comes to casting.

The TV presenter decided to put her heartache on hold for the day and get her 'barnet fixed'

He got down on one knee a year after they started dating and Feltz accepted his proposal. They were wed in 1983, but got divorced in 2000. The TV presenter decided to put her heartache on hold for the day and get her ‘barnet fixed’

Vanessa Feltz, who recently split from her long-term boyfriend Ben Ofoedu, lost almost three stone in 2019 and has discussed the terrifying incident which ...

my symptoms were getting worse and worse and it was urgent to take it out, so I thought okay let’s do both." She sought urgent medical attention and was told her gastric band had slipped. She said: "I’ve lost just under three stone which is great. The following year, Vanessa shed more weight – taking her weight loss up to four stone – which she credited to a healthier diet and fitness regime. "But, actually what you should remember is that you are in your best... [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.irishmirror.ie/all-about/vanessa-feltz) was recently told by her Celebrity Big Brother pal Ulrika Jonsson she is in the "best shape" as she discussed [her split from Ben Ofoedu.](https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/disappointed-vanessa-feltz-splits-fianc-29132998)

Vanessa Feltz appeared on This Morning to talk about her recent split from her partner of 16 years, singer Ben Ofoedu.

Vanessa's appearance on [This Morning](https://www.digitalspy.com/this-morning/) yesterday (February 8) marked the star's first TV appearance since her separation was made public. It’s not like I’m a stranger to this stuff. I feel terribly humiliated. I feel hurt. That isn’t a ridiculous thing to do." [Phillip Schofield](https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/a41616193/ntas-this-morning-phillip-schofield-feud-rumours/) and [Holly Willoughby](https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/a42186629/holly-willoughby-celebrity-juice-falls-down/) about her feelings after the break-up.

VANESSA Feltz looked radiant following a hair makeover and declared "when all else fails, get the barnet fixed".Popular broadcaster Vanessa showcase.

I'm very shocked, but I am going to soldier forth. "I have said, I'm very sad. So that is what I'm doing." I hope to rise like a phoenix from the ashes and all of that." She told fans of her TalkTV drive time show that despite the "sadness" and "shock", she wouldn't let it get her down. In a video on Instagram the Talk TV star told fans: "Morning, I'm at the hairdresser, and I'm thinking, when all else fails get that barnet fixed.