The TV star confirmed over the weekend that she'd broken up with her fiancé after a 16-year romance and confessed she's 'shocked'.
Vanessa bravely concluded: ‘She died at 57 and I’m going to be 61 next month. I’m so glad to be living longer then my mum did. [ The Sun](https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/21277517/vanessa-feltz-fiance-ben-ofoedu-cheating/) this week: ‘I had thought it might take a bit longer before this came out, because it’s a lot to deal with — a shock like this takes some adjusting to — but I am extremely sad and disappointed that my 16-year relationship with Ben is over.’ Because I’m not going to let this defeat me. So I feel very grateful to be alive and I want to carry on feeling that way and I want to celebrate and I want to find fun and laughter anywhere I can and I know it’s not going to be easy but I’m absolutely determined to do it.’ ‘But now it’s clear that it’s over and I really do feel that once the trust in a relationship is gone you really can’t get it back, and that’s what I’d tell anyone else to do.’
The couple had been together since 2005 and made regular appearances together both on-screen and in magazines.
She said that the divorce from her doctor ex-husband made her "wary of getting married again." "It makes you wary of getting married again. Confirming their split to The Sun on Sunday, Vanessa added: "Who knew I’d be single at 60? Speaking to OK! The pair had met following her Vanessa Feltz has been left heartbroken after splitting with her long-term fiancé Ben Ofoedu.
Vanessa Feltz has broken her social media silence in light of the breakdown of her relationship to musician Ben Ofoedu, whom she was with for 16 years - 15 ...
[To read the very best of today’s OK! " followed by a string of heart emojis. New beginnings now darling". I am not going to let this defeat me." She died at 57 and, if the Lord spares me, I'm going to be 61 next month. Vanessa went on: "I'm so glad to be living longer than my mum did. [Holly Willoughby](https://www.ok.co.uk/latest/holly-willoughby) penning: "We simply love you to bits… [who was recently rushed to hospital with the flu](https://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-news/vanessa-feltz-daughter-flu-hospital-28548960). "We love and support you always Mumm," added her daughter, Allegra, "Sending you all my love". [she confirmed the break-up](https://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-news/vanessa-feltz-extremely-sad-splits-29135691). [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.ok.co.uk/latest/vanessa-feltz) has taken to Instagram to address her split from [fiance Ben Ofoedu](https://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-video/vanessa-feltz-ben-ofoedu-relationship-26139477).
Vanessa Feltz broke her social media silence after announcing her split from Ben Ofoedu after 16 years together and revealed she's determined to find joy in ...
Vanessa added to The Sun: "Who knew I’d be single at 60? "It makes you wary of getting married again. I am not going to let this defeat me. "I am very very grateful to be alive and I want to carry on feeling that way and I want to celebrate and find fun and laughter anywhere I can. But the TV star also defiantly said that she's not going to let the heartbreak "defeat" her and that she's looking for the good in life as she approaches her 61st birthday. [Big Brother](https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/big-brother) star said that she is "disappointed" and "incredibly sad" after the 16-year-long relationship ended.
Vanessa Feltz has shared an update after confirming she has split from her partner of 16 years Ben Ofoedu.
[Amid reports that he has cheated on Vanessa multiple times](/tvshowbiz/article-11713803/Vanessa-Feltz-splits-fianc-Ben-Ofoedu-amid-claims-cheated.html), Vanessa told fans she was 'incredibly sad, disappointed and shocked' in a video posted to her Instagram page on Sunday afternoon. And that is quite a nice feeling.' She also reposted Carelle Rose's message, which said: 'Vanessa is incredible!! I didn't understand what I'd done wrong.' She finds gratitude despite her pain. Love: She also reposted Carelle Rose's message, which said: 'Vanessa is incredible!! He wrote: 'The strength you have shown is nothing short of incredible. A friend of the couple told the publication Vanessa is 'heartbroken, ashamed, devastated' but they insist she is determined to take back control of her life and focus on her new TalkTV show. You are an utter inspiration. This mindset and attitude is just so inspiring. I am not going to let this defeat me.' Honest: Vanessa told fans she was 'incredibly sad, disappointed and shocked' in a video posted to her Instagram page on Sunday afternoon
VANESSA Feltz discovered evidence that she believed proved her fiancé Ben Ofoedu had cheated on her with several women.TalkTV favourite Vanessa, 60,
I didn’t understand what I’d done wrong.” However, ladies, it’s onwards and upwards – and I firmly believe that the best is yet to come. I had thought it might take a bit longer before this came out, because it’s a lot to deal with – a shock like this takes some adjusting to – but I am extremely sad and disappointed that my 16-year relationship with Ben is over. She has also said she would “never say never” to tying the knot again. She has said: “It’s been non-stop hurly-burly at the door, in the car, on the chaise longue, when all I really wanted was to melt or sob or scream.” [begged her husband](https://www.thesun.ie/tv/9408893/talktv-vanessa-feltz-husband-car-tyre-begged/) not to leave her and their daughters, even clinging on in desperation to the wheels of his car to stop him driving away. A friend of the couple said of her split with Ben: “He has cheated copiously, all over the place, exposing her to all sorts. “She recently launched a show on talkTV which has been taking up a lot of time, so she has been out of the house earning money while he has been disrespecting her.” Vanessa told The Sun on Sunday: “I had thought it might take a bit longer before this came out, because it’s a lot to deal with — a shock like this takes some adjusting to — but I am extremely sad and disappointed that my 16-year relationship with Ben is over. However, ladies, it’s onwards and upwards and I firmly believe that the best is yet to come.” She added: “I hear that Kylie Minogue is single again, so I’m in good company — if she wants to hit the town, hook me up.” “As an agony aunt I have said many times that once the trust in a relationship is gone, it can never be repaired or regained.
Vanessa Feltz has ended her relationship with Phats and Small singer Ben Ofoedu after 16 years amid allegations that he has been unfaithful.
British broadcaster Vanessa Feltz has confirmed her relationship with partner Ben Ofoedu has ended after 16 years together. Feltz (60) said “once the trust ...
And broadcaster Elizabeth Day wrote: “I love you so much. you ARE a survivor and I can’t wait to be going out with you… and you have survived far far worse V…
Vanessa Feltz fought back tears as she broke her silence on her split with Ben Ofoedu this morning.Speaking on social media for the first time since t.
I am not going to let this defeat me." [was shocked as The Sun on Sunday](https://www.thesun.ie/tvandshowbiz/10173391/vanessa-feltz-fiance-ben-ofoedu-cheating/) approached her for a comment last night. [discovered evidence ](https://www.thesun.ie/tvandshowbiz/10174917/heartbreaking-vanessa-feltz-evidence-cheating-ben-ofoedu/)that she believed proved her fiancé Ben had cheated on her with several women. [Ben ](https://www.thesun.ie/tvandshowbiz/bizarre/9693095/90s-pop-stars-kicked-out-butlins/)is over after sixteen years and I honestly didn't know what to say to you on instagram. [TalkTV legend](https://www.thesun.ie/tvandshowbiz/10174917/heartbreaking-vanessa-feltz-evidence-cheating-ben-ofoedu/) also admitted she was "disappointed" and "shocked" after it emerged Ben had allegedly cheated on her with several women. [Vanessa ](https://www.thesun.ie/who/vanessa-feltz/)appeared tearful and admitted she is "incredibly sad" about the end of the 16-year relationship.
The 16-year-long relationship of Vanessa Feltz and Ben Ofoedu has come to an end.
The views expressed here are that of the respective authors/ entities and do not represent the views of Economic Times (ET). Feltz said that she is devastated after the split. She firmly believes that the best is yet to come. The TV presenter, in a conversation with OK! Since 2005, Ben and Vanessa have been together. However, ladies, it is onwards and upwards.
Broadcaster Vanessa Feltz has confirmed her relationship with her partner Ben Ofoedu has ended after 16 years together.
"I know it is not going to be easy, but I am absolutely determined to do it." She added: "I am very very grateful to be alive and I want to carry on feeling that way and I want to celebrate and find fun and laughter anywhere I can. "I am not going to let this defeat me."
In a video posted on Instagram, she explained that her absence from social media over the past three weeks was due to her relationship with Ofoedu coming to an ...
“I honestly didn’t now what to say to you on Instagram,” Feltz, 60, said in the emotional clip. Whatever else, please know you are utterly beloved by so many of us – not least your incredible daughters and grandchildren – and we will never, ever let you down.” You are a survivor and I can’t wait to be going out with you… You are a queen and deserve a person worthy of your shining light. So I have to take my own advice on this occasion. and you have survived far far worse V…
British broadcaster Vanessa Feltz has confirmed her relationship with partner Ben Ofoedu has ended after 16 years together. Feltz (60) said “once the trust in a ...
And broadcaster Elizabeth Day wrote: “I love you so much. you ARE a survivor and I can’t wait to be going out with you… and you have survived far far worse V…
“As an agony aunt, I have said many times that once the trust in a relationship is gone, it can never be repaired or regained.
So I have to take my own advice on this occasion. You are a survivor and I can’t wait to be going out with you… “I honestly didn’t now what to say to you on Instagram,” Feltz, 60, said in the emotional clip.
This Morning star Vanessa was emotional as she addresed her break-up from Phats & Small singer Ben Ofoedu.
She died at 57 and I’m going to be 61 next month. Speaking into the camera Vanessa said: "Well, I haven’t been on Instagram for three weeks and that’s because my relationship with Ben is over after 16 years and I honestly didn’t know what to say to you on Instagram." Ben has yet to speak out about the split. "I’m so glad to be living longer then my mum did. But also full of resolve, because I’m not going to let this defeat me. In a frank Instagram video the 60-year-old broadcaster said the trust had been broken in their relationship.
VANESSA Feltz looked glam as she enjoyed a day out with her family after her painful split from Ben Ofoedu -and sent a heart-felt message to her fans.
I am not going to let this defeat me." Vanessa told The Sun on Sunday: “I had thought it might take a bit longer before this came out, because it’s a lot to deal with — a shock like this takes some adjusting to — but I am extremely sad and disappointed that my 16-year relationship with Ben is over. "I am very very grateful to be alive and I want to carry on feeling that way and I want to celebrate and find fun and laughter anywhere I can. Putting a positive spin on things, Vanessa said: "I am so glad to be living longer than my mum did, she died at 57 and for the Lord's prayers, I am going to be 61 next month. I'm doing ok." "But now it's clear that it's over and I really do feel that once the trust in a relationship is gone then you can't really get it back and that's what I would tell anyone else to do."
This Morning star Vanessa Feltz put her heartbreak to the side on Saturday night following her split from fiancé Ben Ofoed as she attended Alison Hammond's ...
Confirming their split to The Sun on Sunday, Vanessa said: "Who knew I’d be single at 60? [Celebrity Big Brother](https://www.irishmirror.ie/all-about/celebrity-big-brother) contestant Vanessa discovered the doctor was cheating on her via newspaper reports. biggest kiss xxx" See you on the sofa next week where you can guide me through the week's news… [Vanessa Feltz](https://www.irishmirror.ie/all-about/vanessa-feltz) is living it up with help of her [This Morning](https://www.irishmirror.ie/all-about/this-morning) pals by her side. [Vanessa has said she had been left 'extremely sad](https://www.irishmirror.ie/all-about/vanessa-feltz) and disappointed' after the 16-year-long relationship ended recently.
This Morning's Vanessa Feltz revealed she had split from her fiancé Ben Ofoedu after sixteen years – but it wasn't just due to his alleged infidelity.
You have been so brave and will absolutely rise from this like the Queen you are. However, she announced they were separating in an emotional Instagram video from their [£3.5million London home](https://www.hellomagazine.com/homes/gallery/20220209132734/vanessa-feltz-house-fiance-ben-ofoedu-inside-photos/1/) on Sunday. Because I am not going to let this defeat me." "You have got this Vanessa and we have got you. While she hinted at Ben's infidelities, adding that "once the trust in a relationship is gone then you can't really get it back", she has previously revealed another reason why their engagement didn't last. "It’s bloody annoying and it gets worse, especially as our relationship coincided with acres of menopause, which started on my very first day presenting the Radio 2 breakfast show in 2011 with a massive hot flush at 4am and is still going on."
The presenter put on a brave face at Hammond's 48th birthday bash after break-up with Ben Ofoedu.
Confirming their split to The Sun on Sunday, she added: “Who knew I’d be single at 60? [recently said she’d been “extremely sad and disappointed" because of the end of her and Ofoedu’s 16-year relationship.](https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/celebrity-news/vanessa-feltz-ben-ofoedu-split-b1058052.html) The mother-of-two took to Instagram after the event to post an image of her with Hammond, which she captioned: “What a wonderful party.”
She was left 'shocked and disappointed' upon finding out her partner of 16 years Ben Ofoedu had cheated on her with several women.
And that is quite a nice feeling.' She also reposted Carelle Rose's message, which said: 'Vanessa is incredible!! I didn't understand what I'd done wrong.' She finds gratitude despite her pain. Love: She also reposted Carelle Rose's message, which said: 'Vanessa is incredible!! A friend of the couple told the publication Vanessa is 'heartbroken, ashamed, devastated' but they insist she is determined to take back control of her life and focus on her new TalkTV show. He wrote: 'The strength you have shown is nothing short of incredible. You are an utter inspiration. I am not going to let this defeat me.' This mindset and attitude is just so inspiring. Honest: Vanessa told fans she was 'incredibly sad, disappointed and shocked' in a video posted to her Instagram page on Sunday afternoon The radio presenter has said that despite her upset, she is determined to find a pocketful of happiness in every day.
Vanessa Feltz has told her followers that her relationship with her long-term partner is now “over”.
So I have to take my own advice on this occasion. “I honestly didn’t now what to say to you on Instagram,” Feltz, 60, said in the emotional clip. You are a survivor and I can’t wait to be going out with you…