Conversations With Friends

2022 - 5 - 18

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'Conversations With Friends' and the pitfalls of adapting Sally Rooney (The Washington Post)

The new series, which premiered Sunday, spins a tangled web of romances between Dublin college students Bobbi (Sasha Lane) and Frances (Alison Oliver) and a ...

This isn’t to say “Normal People” didn’t falter at times, despite the best efforts of actors Daisy Edgar-Jones and Paul Mescal. Their characters are also driven by a neuroticism Rooney painstakingly details on the page, but that doesn’t quite translate in certain scenes. She makes shrewd observations about the casual absurdity of how millennials may think, such as when Frances, after a risky interaction with Nick, is relieved to see him message her in all lowercase letters: “It would have been dramatic to introduce capitalization at such a moment of tension,” she narrates. “Conversations With Friends” seems to rely more on digital communication than “Normal People,” lending to an adaptation that strays further from its source material.

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Conversations with Friends FAQ: What to expect from the new Sally ... (Irish Examiner)

When will the series be available to stream? Who stars in it? Is it any good? Is that your man from the Young Offenders?

As the series was released in its entirety last week in the UK, reviewers have had plenty of opportunities to share their feelings. The Guardian’s review was unimpressed, giving the adaptation a middle-of-the-road three stars out of five. As Kirke, who plays Melissa in the TV adaptation, puts it: “Aside from an affair, nothing really happens.” It will be interesting to see how Rooney’s celebrated minimalist writing style will translate on screen. However, there is a lot less ‘action’ in Conversations With Friends, which was expected. Two episodes will be broadcast each Wednesday night, from this week, on RTÉ One and the RTÉ Player. Where Normal People focused on two main characters, Conversations With Friends has four leads.

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The Conversations With Friends Ending Can't Quite Save This ... (Den of Geek)

By its finale, Conversations With Friends' queer, disabled love story between Frances and Bobbi is the best part of this uneven Sally Rooney series.

Frances had no way of knowing that and had been focused on her own health issues, grief, and reason for leaving the relationship, but Melissa’s perspective helped her realize that Melissa was a mature partner to Nick (and vice versa) in a way that she herself hadn’t been, because they stayed and worked through tough times together. During her tense phone call with Melissa at the end of the series, Frances comes to the devastating realization of just how immature and what a destructive force she has been in Melissa and Nick’s lives, harming them in ways she hadn’t previously considered. Both have health issues that they have complicated feelings about and try to hide from the other. The show’s interpretation demonstrates yet another parallel between Frances and Nick and their communication failures, but also how they could be there for one another in the future. She knows Frances needs to tell him about her health issues but doesn’t quite know how. The tenderness and care with which Bobbi helps Frances is moving, but perhaps the most devastatingly selfless thing she does is call Nick, because she knows that’s who Frances wants to see in that moment. What transpires is an act of love and intimacy, Bobbi doing her best to joke and keep things light to allow Frances whatever measure of dignity she needs, even as they both reference a different kind of intimacy they’ve previously shared, which had also allowed Bobbi to see Frances undressed. She doesn’t necessarily have a whole lot of choice, but she could have resisted or insisted that Bobbi phone her mother. In the United States, it typically takes four to 11 years to receive a diagnosis. Having three out of four main characters queer leaves no realistic way to end the show in relationships that aren’t queer, but finally foregrounding Bobbi and Frances’ relationship after largely removing both it and Bobbi’s impact on Frances’ life, as compared to the novel, feels like an important shift. It’s worth noting that when they get back together, like many queer people, Bobbi and Frances go out of their way not to choose the kind of domestic monogamy that they find banal, a structure that set up many of the book’s central conflicts. The Conversations With Friends limited series, an adaptation of Irish author Sally Rooney’s debut novel, is a story about the many ways four people come together and fall apart over the course of a summer.

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Joe Alwyn, Alison Oliver on Creating “Separation” Between ... (Hollywood Reporter)

Joe Alwyn, Alison Oliver on Creating “Separation” Between 'Conversations With Friends' and 'Normal People'. Alwyn, who plays an actor in the Sally Rooney series ...

“Of course, it shares a tone and an aesthetic and a writer and the team that are making it, but actually just approaching it as its own thing was how we ended up doing it,” said Oliver of differentiating the two projects, of which she was admittedly “a very big fangirl of” after reading both of Rooney’s books. Alwyn was also a big fan of Rooney’s novels and said he met and exchanged a few texts with Mescal during shooting. “I think it’s nice that aesthetically, internally, there’s a relationship to Normal People, but even from the book, it’s very much its own story and its own show.

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Conversations With Friends review: We want to like this so much but... (Irish Examiner)

Cork actress Alison Oliver is superb as the introverted Frances, but we do want a bit more from the latest Sally Rooney adaptation.

Bobbi is bold, unfiltered, American and a small bit of a pain in the hole. With the chats about Communism and the PG text messages, I’m not holding out much hope, and I don’t really care about the other two characters. To be fair, it was always going to be trickier to transfer that inner intimate world of Book Frances to Screen Frances, and Cork actress Alison Oliver does a magnificent job of conveying a multitude with no more than a slight widening of her mascara-free eyes. I say 'hit', more like it delicately brushes up against the small screen with a meaningful sigh. Much like the rest of the human race, I was on the Normal People fan bus. You can't say that, though, because you are a GOOD MOTHER and you adored Normal People and you want to like this too.

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Conversations with Friends director promises drama will get sexier (Dublin Live)

The adaptation of Sally Rooney's debut novel has been slammed for being slow compared to Paul Mescal and Daisy Edgar-Jones' raunchy scenes in the TV version of ...

Lenny said: “He is amazing. I have to say I really admire him greatly as an actor.” “And when he is on set, he is really working.

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Conversations with Friends is a beautifully slow burn (The Globe and Mail)

Sublimely sensitive and subdued, the adaptation of Sally Rooney's novel on Amazon Prime Video delivers.

You could ask: Do Melissa and Nick annex Bobbi and Frances or is it the other way around? Without the interiority of the novel much depends here on Alison Oliver as Frances to deliver a novel’s worth of dramatic complexity in her bearing, her face, her eyes, glances and physical reactions. The series is gorgeously made, sensitive to the Dublin setting in an unusual way, aware of the texture of the place, away from what the tourists gaze at. The evolution of that affair is the story of the series (12 half-hour episodes) and it is so, so slow burning that the delicacy of it is exquisite. One knows that because she’s been called the “first great millennial novelist,” been dismissed as a writer of souped-up, morbid romance, and there was a major fuss two years ago about the TV adaptation of her novel Normal People. Admired or disparaged, her material matters. Then swept along by its rhythm and the emotional tumult of Frances’s life in Dublin, I came to its final shattering words: “Come and get me.” No one who has read it can forget the shock of that.

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RTE Conversations With Friends viewers ecstatic as Derry Girls star ... (Irish Mirror)

Fans were left amazed after Tommy Tiernan revealed his role in the new series as main character Frances' dad.

I really hope he keeps doing it, he's fab!" "Seeing Tommy Tiernan in both Derry Girls and Conversations with Friends proved to me just how talented an actor he is. Derry Girls viewers had just bid farewell to the final episode of the much-loved show when the first episode of Conversation With Friends made its debut.

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RTE viewers all have same complaint about 'bland' Conversations ... (The Irish Sun)

RTE viewers have all had the same complaint about "bland" Conversation With Friends saying it was "the most boring affair."Tonight was the first and s.

Hollie said: "So does the tone of Conversations with Friends change at all cos I'm 3 episodes in and bored as F**CK." During the first episode, the summer before the final year at college, Frances and Bobbi met Melissa and Nick. RTE viewers have all had the same complaint about "bland" Conversation With Friends saying it was "the most boring affair."

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Conversations With Friends Recap: You Are The Bane of My Existence (Vulture)

Okay, so maybe having an affair with an older married man is more challenging than it initially seemed. A recap of episode eight of Hulu's miniseries ...

We hear Frances read the first line of it — a document she titles “The Dance,” I can only hope it’s a reference to one of the great messy-relationship bands of our time — to herself, and contrary to what one might think given the inciting incident for this writing-fest, the subject of the story is a “her.” “The problem is that I’m in love with you and you obviously don’t feel the same. I mean, I’m not Team Nick but good lord) and trying to provoke him with her tales from Tinder. Of course she is hoping that he will respond to the news of her date by saying he minds that she has sex with other people, but instead he’s like, you can do whatever you want, which only enrages her further. And Nick just gets back up to say, “You can’t just take it out on me whenever you feel bad … Does the fact that I’m married mean that you can treat me however you want?” She finds fault in his every effort — his taste in poetry is fascist, apparently — and looks so aggressively bored at everything he says I cannot believe he goes with her for a beer at a second location. Frances knows she’s in a relationship with a man who is married to someone he loves and does not want to leave.

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If 'genius' behind Conversations With Friends is voice of millennials ... (Daily Mail)

EMILY HILL: The adaptation of her book Normal People was the TV hit of the pandemic. Now the work of Sally Rooney is back on screens with the BBC's ...

Because admitting you don’t like it is seen as social suicide, a sign that you’re likely of sub-par intellect, given your failure to recognise her supposed genius. But Marianne is a consummate victim — and many of us don’t want to think of ourselves that way. Rooney’s popularity is a classic case of woke indoctrination. By contrast, the sexiest character in Conversations With Friends is not a person but Nick and Melissa’s house, which is straight out of a Farrow & Ball catalogue. According to the BBC, Normal People was viewed 62.7 million times. Of course, not all female characters have to be as empowered as Jane Eyre, but Marianne’s need to be rescued by Connell means Rooney ends up disempowering women. I think it would have been better if I’d said nothing’ — there really is no excuse. I’m going to switch the TV off, if that’s okay. Just look at Marianne, Normal People’s female protagonist, a privileged white woman who appears to have an eating disorder, is clearly depressed, and who asks to be used by men in horrible ways. Having forced my way almost to the end of the 12-episode series, I can categorically say that it’s achingly tedious and self-indulgent. And though I disliked Normal People for the same reasons, at least that series had a love story that reminded us all of teenage lust, as opposed to an ugly extra-marital affair. The story of an on-off romance between two Irish school friends, complete with authentically lusty sex scenes, captivated millions during lockdown and made the careers of its two lead actors.

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Conversations With Friends - Lenny Abrahamson talks to RTÉ Arena (RTE.ie)

The highly anticipated TV adaptation of Sally Rooney's debut novel Conversations with Friends is coming to RTÉ this week - director Lenny Abrahamson talks ...

Conversations with Friends premieres on RTÉ One on Wednesday, May at 9.35 pm. The script comes from Mark O'Halloran, reuniting with the director after their earlier collaborations on Adam & Paul, Garage and RTÉ series Prosperity. Please review their details and accept them to load the content.

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Conversations with Friends: Joe Alwyn's South Dublin accent ... (Dublin Live)

Taylor Swift's Beau, who plays Nick Conway in the Sally Rooney series, is originally from Kent in England. So when he attempted a posh Dublin accent, fans were ...

It’s very realistic for where Nick lives, the fact Melissa is from the UK/US, they travel, his profession. I’m Irish born/bred. Another posted: “I love Joe Alwyn to his bones but I’m seven episodes into Conversations with Friends and I cannot for the life of me tell if he’s trying to do a Dublin accent or not."

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Viewers surprised to see 'superb' Irish comedian in Conversations ... (FM104)

The first two episodes of Conversation with Friends aired on RTÉ on Wednesday night. The TV adaptation of Sally Rooney's novel of the same name comes from the ...

Seeing Tommy Tiernan in both Derry Girls and Conversations with Friends proved to me just how talented an actor he is.— Mairead (@Mayiread) Between his appearances on both Derry Girls and Conversations With Friends, Tommy Tiernan's acting is sorely underrated.— Dan Wray (@dwwray) May 18, 2022 “Tommy Tiernan is in Conversations with Friends?!” another shocked viewer wrote while a third said: "Between his appearances on both Derry Girls and Conversations With Friends, Tommy Tiernan's acting is sorely underrated."

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Hulu's 'Conversations With Friends' Needed More Bite (The Atlantic)

How could a Sally Rooney adaptation get Millennials so wrong? By Shirley Li. Frances and Bonnie sitting side by side smiling at each other in a ...

Being a Millennial, Rooney posits, is being annoyingly aware of too much—of gender, of class, of dynamics that previous generations didn’t have the vocabulary to discuss—and then being unable to deal with it. “Do I want to be free of pain and therefore demand that others also live free of pain, the pain that is mine and therefore also theirs, yes, yes.” Immediately after having those thoughts, she faints, and when she wakes up, she buys herself instant noodles and chocolate cake. Hulu’s adaptation of Conversations dulls the author’s wit, depicting Frances as merely detached, not tortured by her ideas. Yet even as the series shies away from the violence of Rooney’s writing, it also misses her sense of humor, a crucial element to her portrayal of the Millennial experience. During a scene missing from the adaptation, Frances wanders into a church and has an epiphany: “Do I sometimes hurt and harm myself, do I abuse the unearned cultural privilege of whiteness, do I take the labor of others for granted, have I sometimes exploited a reductive iteration of gender theory to avoid serious moral engagement, do I have a troubled relationship with my body, yes,” she thinks. But they exhibit a cerebral interiority that has led to Rooney being hailed as “ the first great millennial novelist.” Through them, she captures the way her generation strives to be cool and insightful while being laden with the anxiety of awareness. She recognizes that she’s the product of a generation built on an insufficient form of communication and can even identify the practice as toxic, but she continues doing it all the same. TheTo watch Conversations is to watch her acerbic words detailing the agony of the Millennial experience—so performative! Rooney carefully tracked how Frances deluded herself into justifying a difficult relationship because she didn’t know what to do about it; eventually, Frances gives up on trying to figure out the romance, getting upset over and over until she feels empty. Bobbi’s flirtation with Melissa threatens Frances and Bobbi’s unresolved breakup, and Frances’s affair with Nick is a lopsided exercise in power dynamics. As magnetic as the newcomer Alison Oliver is in the role, the script softens her character’s edges, making Frances’s outward iciness the result of her simply being shy, rather than of the fact that she grew up communicating on cold digital interfaces. Frances, a college student, dreams that a tooth has come loose in her mouth, leaving a hole that pumps out so much blood, she can’t speak.

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Conversations With Friends Recap: I'm Coming Clean (Vulture)

Through Frances' essay, we get a little more backstory about her relationship with Bobbi. This is the first episode where I feel like I really get their ...

She says she loves him too, and he tucks her in and stays the night and says, “let’s just be happy from now on,” but the look on her face juuuust before the credits roll would suggest she is not so sure about that. Frances admits that she had no idea what was going on with her and Nick and that she never told him about her hospitalization, though she says she tried. Nick looks like he can’t decide if he needs to cry or throw up, and then he says, “I told Melissa.” (!!!!) He told her the day after their fight. Frances seems to relish the power she has from having given Bobbi a “fucking fright” and actually chooses this time to start FLIRTING with her ex, now that Nick is on his way over and some of her pain has subsided and her total submission to her physical needs has brought out the caregivers in everyone around her. (“I promise to undress you in a very unsexy manner.”) She jokes, “Who knew I could be so nurturing?” and Frances says, sincerely, “I did.” Again I must ask: Where was this at the beginning of the series? She and Bobbi rehash their breakup, and — what a shock — Bobbi remembers it differently. It’s raining and freezing, and Bobbi wants to take Frances to a medical center, but Frances only wants to go home. She doesn’t actually tell anyone about this, even Bobbi (who is paying rent to Frances’ dad, and maybe it would be wiser for that money to just … go directly to Frances? If her dad is just going to go ahead and put it back in her account, except for when he drinks too much and forgets?). This reminds me that one of the things we’ve lost in the book-to-screen translation is a more explicit articulation of Frances’ politics and her attitude about money. When is her ultrasound in Dublin?!? Nick is texting and calling at 2:45 in the morning. When Bobbi rouses her and tells her that she fainted, Frances can’t stop apologizing. Frances tries to dodge this but gets this excellent and true counsel: “If you’re serious about a writing career, you are going to have to put yourself out there at some point.” The idea that Bobbi arrived at school as an outsider who nobody liked is intriguing to me; it gives a new dimension to their power dynamic, which up until this point seemed heavily weighted in Bobbi’s favor from the very start.

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